💋"I entered an apprehensive sad woman, who was just gonna give this a try because I had nothing to lose. I did not know what to expect but l after completing all my sessions I can feel and see the effects in my life. I feel lighter, I have hope for the future, I am less depressed. One of the biggest changes l've experienced is the way I feel about my body, I feel more comfortable in and and appreciate it for what it does for me everyday. I look forward to reclaiming my social life and stepping into the world as a more authentic version of myself. Thank you."

STEPH

💋“At a time in my life where I was physically adjusting to chronic illness, trying to take care of my body so that it functioned normally, I was so focused on what I was eating, trying to hold down a job while not being sick all the time, and taking care of my elderly parents, I felt very unattractive and so disconnected from my body. I was on the dating apps and was not actually dating anyone. I had been thinking about working with Toran for about a year before I reached out and asked.

I came to Toran when I felt I was able to maintain some comfort in my body. I was looking to not just be comfortable in my body, but reconnect with my body and feel sexy and attractive in it. I felt I was ready to find a partner who would be something long-term.  

My initial thought was “this is a lot of money that I’m not sure I have right now.” But I jumped in anyway. Within the week I started receiving gifts in the mail. Lovely things that made me happy. Things I would never have thought to get for myself. They were all from Toran and they all had a purpose in our work together, but what these gifts made me think was “Oh, I might have spent a lot of money, but I just spent it all on me!” From that moment, I felt really good about what I was paying for and I felt very open to whatever Toran had to offer me.

Throughout our work together, there were practices that sounded like something I wouldn’t want to do, but I gave them a shot anyway. One of the practices I knew in my head sounded kinda eye-roll to me, but I tried it once and told Toran, “Ok, I did it, but it’s not for me.” A few days later Toran’s words about the practice kept resounding in my mind, and the benefits were frankly beneficial to my body and my self-image, so I started the practice daily. About a week later I physically noticed a change in my body. I confessed to Toran that although I had pooh-poohed her practice initially, I had been doing it daily and the results were noticeable. I apologized for being a brat about doing the work, and I was so excited to see the results from her invitation to do this practice work, I couldn’t wait to share with her. “You’re amazing!” I told her, which I already knew and I’m sure she already knows, but it never hurts to say these things out loud. Oh, and the practice is now part of my daily regimen. I continue to use all the tools I learned from Toran.

While working with Toran, I had a drastic reconnection and renewed relationship with my body, which was exactly what I had wanted and needed. As a result of this new relationship to my body, my original goals Toran and I had established, shifted and needed to shift. I was still focused on romantic relationships and dating, but my being more intimate and in-touch with what I want and what I don’t want changed the original picture of what my ideal relationship would look like. It was work, and work with Toran, to settle into my new goals. And these things I learned about myself and my relationships while working with Toran, encompass more than just my romantic relationships. They have affected the way I view my relationship to my body, my relationship with my parents, my relationship with money, and my relationship with friends and coworkers. I still go through ups and downs, times when I’m feeling really good physically and emotionally, but also times when I feel physically ill or sad and disappointed, but I have more tools and practices that help me to reconnect with my body. And sometimes I check in with Toran and share my triumphs and my knock downs. She will acknowledge and witness me in all my states, and having that, knowing that I am seen and not alone, that is one of the biggest helps in navigating my desires. And those desires have become realities more quickly than I expected. I am living in pleasure. And my pleasure looks different from your pleasure, and however we get to live in our pleasure, I could never have seen its path or reached it so quickly without Toran.

If you feel stuck or are frustrated that the things you want in your life seem so far away and you’re not sure how to get there, give this pleasure journey a try. Let yourself be open to not knowing what your pleasure journey might be and let Toran guide you. That’s the best advice I can give for how to get what you want. It is an investment, but you are spending this money on you. You deserve to walk in your pleasure.”

Lydia

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💋”It’s time to amplify self exploration to becoming your best. Toran  provides, a safe, grounding, healing space that is very much needed at these times. I’d like to add that her voice, wisdom and care is that of Mother Earth.”

Lady Custodio

💋“I noticed a change in how I felt about myself (confidence). I realized at a much deeper level that I have got myself (I don't need anyone else/anything to complete me). I got a greater sense of peace and awareness. “

Alisha Phipps